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A mother’s anguish: ‘They cheated my son (Mark Barriga)’

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LONDON—There are a few things more heartbreaking for a mother than to witness her boy lose in the biggest contest of his life.

Such was the anguish of Melita Barriga on Saturday as she watched her son, Mark Anthony, lose a fight he rightfully won in the round of 16 of the boxing competition in the 30th Olympic Games in London.

It’s hard to accept the defeat, she said, especially because she thought her boy had won the fight against Kazakhstan’s Birzhan Zhakypov.

Melita is one of  more than a hundred mothers who were flown to London by Procter & Gamble for its global Olympic theme honoring  mothers all over the world for their role in developing Olympians.

“The hardest job in the world is truly the best job in the world,” is the poignant tribute to mothers in  television commercials that have gone viral in the Internet leading up to the London Olympics.

According to Anama Dimapilis, brand public relations manager of P&G in Manila, Barriga’s mother was the one and only candidate chosen by her company to go to London because her son was the only Filipino who had qualified for the Olympics when the deadline came to submit a name.

Barriga’s father Edgar had chaperoned Mrs. Barriga in London. It was the couple’s first trip abroad.

On Saturday night, Mark and his parents had dinner with Ricky Vargas, president of the Amateur Boxing Association of the Philippines. Mark’s parent left for home Sunday morning.

Edgar is a printing machine operator for a fruit company in Panabo City in Davao del Norte. Melita is a housewife. The Barriga couple had hoped to extend their stay in London. Unfortunately, their son ran into a wrestler, not a boxer, in the round of 16 of the boxing competition here.

Melita watched in pain as the Kazakh time and again pushed low and slammed her son against the ropes and into the canvas. On two of these occasions, Mark, was penalized, adding a total of four points to his opponent’s score. He eventually lost by a point.

Like any mother, Melita had been against Mark’s boxing career. She was aware of the dangers of the sport and was persistent with her opposition, until he qualified for the Olympics.  Mark himself eventually convinced his mother to drop her opposition.

On Saturday, Melita was an angry mother. She was in a fighting mood.

“It’s very clear the referee cheated my son,” Melita said in Filipino.

She may not know boxing much, but she knew her son was robbed.


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Tags: 30th Olympic Games , London 2012 Olympics , Melita Barriga

  • maximus_meridius

    “They cheated my son”.  Easy for you to say Mrs. Barriga. Pinoys are such a bunch of sore losers.  Nanghihinayang ka siguro Mrs Barriga sa perang kikitain nyo kung nanalo yung anak mo.  Typical stupid pinoy attitude na patay gutom at mukhang pera!

  • maximus_meridius

    I saw the fight.  Barriga was not aggressive enough in the last round so stop complaining and whining Mrs. Barriga.  Tigilan mo na ang drama.  Gusto mo lang yata ng media mileage tulad ng maraming pinoy. Kung talagang talo, ay talo.  Don’t be a sore loser.  Tumigil ka na!

  • juanhenyo

     admittedly, mark is skillful. the big question is KINAPOS ng hangin sa third round kaya di tuloy makasuntok. it was glaring. di ko tuloy  lubos maisip kung bakit ganun eh dapat yung stamina eh given na yan considering that he is short and he is expected to be moving alot kasi matatangkad mga kalaban nya. Onyok already made that obeservation on him kaya he was adviced to improve on it but obviously he did not heed such advice. mark simply blew his chance in my opinion. 

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_IVV7ECUTWYGB7PBOYROJKBYPRE Kepner

    i am sorry manang.. but your son lost steam in the third round… sayang… but i still admire his courage and determination.. its the philippines sports association (ABAP) wi hope who should be blamed..  kulang ng suporta.. baka walang budget para conditioning and nutrition… i hope manny pacquiao will be the manager of the next boxing team para alagang alaga ang mga boxers natin

  • victor1052

    Cheated, she said? Typical Filipino character. Pacquiao is a whole lot better even compared to all our politicians. When lost in elections or any contest, it is always ‘I’ve been cheated!’

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_KF2TCBJ2AUC7VIPR3TACWUGITE Rednaxela VD

    Aling Melita, talaga namang nakakalungkot ang nangyari sa inyo pero sa totoo lang, kasalanan ng anak ninyo yun. Imbes na pagbutihin nung 3rd round para hindi mawala ang lamang ay nagpakompiyansa, nagpabagsak ng ilang beses at natakot bigla.

    Wag kayo maniwala sa mga bobong opisyales diyan sa tabi ninyo.  Talagang talo ang anak ninyo. kitang kita naman.  At sa totoo lang, masyadong maliit si barriga para sa boxing, walang panalo yan

  • jeht2003

    Tingnan mo naman yung mga bata na naglalaro sa kalsada at kailan ba naman hindi sumigaw ng daya yung mga natalo? Pati na lang sa mga multi-player games sa computer, ang natalo naka-abang na sa labas para gulpihin ang nanalo kasi daya daw.



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