Kareem Abdul-Jabbar blames himself for lack of relationship with LeBron

FILE PHOTO: Los Angeles Lakers forward LeBron James (6) meets with former player Kareem Abdul-Jabbar after breaking the NBA all time scoring record against the Oklahoma City Thunder during the second half at Crypto.com Arena. Mandatory Credit: Gary A. Vasquez-USA TODAY Sports/File Photo

Kareem Abdul-Jabbar reflected on the complicated relationship he has with LeBron James a day after sitting courtside to watch the Los Angeles Lakers forward break the NBA career scoring record he set nearly 40 years ago.

Abdul-Jabbar, who played the final 14 seasons of his Hall of Fame career with the Lakers, hugged James and presented him with the record-setting ball during an on-court ceremony on Tuesday to recognize the scoring feat.

It was a rare moment shared between the two NBA greats who were inextricably linked all season and overcame their frosty past for the special moment after having not always seen eye to eye on certain issues.

“LeBron said we don’t have a relationship. He’s right — and for that I blame myself. Not for anything I did, but perhaps for not making more of an effort to reach out to him,” Abdul-Jabbar wrote in a Substack blog post on Wednesday.

Abdul-Jabbar has previously written about his disappointment with LeBron’s stance on COVID-19 vaccines, including a meme posted by James on social media that compared COVID-19 to colds and the flu which Abdul-Jabbar said would only encourage vaccine hesitancy and put lives at risk.

Prior to the current season, LeBron gave a very short “No thoughts, and no relationship,” reply when asked about chasing Abdul-Jabbar’s record and if the two were close.

"What LeBron has done off the court is more important than what he's done on the court."

Kareem on LeBron's legacy. #ScoringKing pic.twitter.com/FrU1V62c8k

— NBA (@NBA) February 8, 2023

But Abdul-Jabbar, who set the NBA scoring record the year James was born, insists the main reason he and the future Hall of Famer never formed a bond is due to their gap in age and his failure to make an effort.

“When he started to make a name for himself, I was already pretty removed from the NBA world,” wrote the 75-year-old Abdul-Jabbar.

“That disconnect is on me. I knew the pressures he was under and maybe I could have helped ease them a bit.

“But I saw that LeBron had a friend and mentor in Kobe Bryant and I was just an empty jersey in the rafters. I couldn’t imagine why he’d want to hang with someone twice his age. How many do?”

Abdul-Jabbar said the main reason he does not care about his record being broken is because he is more focused these days on his social legacy, family and charity for disadvantaged children than his basketball legacy.

Abdul-Jabbar also said he is happy that James broke his record. For Abdul-Jabbar, the breaking of a sports record, even his own, is cause for celebration as it means someone pushed the boundaries of what many thought possible to a whole new level.

“It’s as if I won a billion dollars in a lottery and 39 years later someone won two billion dollars. How would I feel? Grateful that I won and happy that the next person also won. His winning in no way affects my winning,” Abdul-Jabbar wrote.